This is a post I never Imagined I would have to write. I've lived in the CDS for about six or more years, pretty much from when I first installed 'Second Life'. One thing I've always loved about the community here is the diversity and the accepting attitude of most people who live here. I'm an out gay man and always have been and… it's never been much of an issue in the CDS. It's nice to be able to relate to people at 'Pat' first and for my sexuality to be less relevant (and usually irrelevant) to whatever we are talking about.
But now we have at least one intolerant homophobic bigot making ill-informed and offensive comments about LGBT people. I see this as an opportunity to educate the ignorant rather than drive out people who hold such stupid views. Free speech means people get to say dumb things and I get to get angry because this stuff is lethal.
[2013/11/25 13:24] josjoha: Vic: i said 'affliction' but right after also 'choice' -- this is an interesting hook into the topic of free speech also; as a matter of fact i do belief that gayness and transgenderism is an affliction -- however out of generosity i also added "choice" for the over-sensibility of some people here. Question: can i express that opinion, or is there no such freedom ? feel free to abuse report me, btw
[2013/11/25 13:25] josjoha: Vic: i did not deride anyone, go ahead and quote it; all i did say is that gay people have caused some morals to go down, and this is just my honest opinion.
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[2013/11/25 13:33] josjoha: i think personally that gayishness and transgenderism but more gayishness, is used as a destraction and wedge issue, to shut people up and effectively deny them speech
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[2013/11/25 13:59] josjoha: i'm fine with the other gender, and if i have an opinion about trees, sneezing or gayishness, i don't see why i couldn't - i don't like the entire subject though, used as a wedge & destraction imho
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[2013/11/25 14:03] josjoha: a protection of people against certain speech, can also become discrimination
[2013/11/25 14:03] josjoha: i've seen foottage of a gay march where counter-protesters where attacked by gay ppl
[2013/11/25 14:04] josjoha: and i'm outnumbered in the forum thread as well, and they jumped on this issue which i barely touched and was not harping on by any means -- majority attacks minority ?
[2013/11/25 14:05] josjoha: it's true though that gay ppl have often been attacked, and so there is some reason to protect them, also being a minority
1. Is homosexuality an 'affliction'? Of course not! Homosexuality has existed in all cultures across the globe throughout recorded history. The evidence is often suppressed when homophobic views dominate the society but that doesn't stop the natural expression of same sex love. It's particularly hilarious that we should have this view stated in the CDS with our Roman sims. Take a look at "The Warren Cup" in the British Museum. It wasn't just the ancient Greeks who saw homosexuality as part of normal human behaviour.
2. Is homosexuality a choice? No. Personally, I have no more choice about my sexuality than…. any straight person! It's just the way I am and I'm fine with it. I assume that people who think homosexuality is a choice see it as some kind of forbidden fruit - one taste and you're hooked for life! Seems odd when the same people seem so disgusted by the notion. Even if it were a choice, so what? People can do what they like with their own bodies in liberal democracies. I think most tattoos don't look that great and shaving a hairy chest is a crime but I don't go shouting about it. I'd offend my friends with tattoos (which is virtually all of them these days) and really, other people's chests don't feature too strongly in my day to day life to get too worked up about it.
3. Are homosexuals violent, intolerant assholes who deny people free speech and beat up bigots? Wow, this one really turns the truth on it's head! It's like saying that objecting to the Westboro Baptist Church is intolerant. It's like saying "Why do these fags keep picking on me? All I said was they were going to burn in hell?" While many of us live in societies where a lot of progress has been made in recent years i.e. equal age of consent, discrimination protection, equal marriage, there are sections of society which literally hate LGBT people. They shout abuse at us in the streets (happened to me in River Island, shopping for some jeans with my partner, weren't even holding hands!), they are violent (had a rock thrown at me for kissing my partner in the street) and sometimes, they even kill people (guy punched and kicked to death in Trafalgar Square, central London for daring to challenge homophobic abuse).
Which is why some of us find these homophobic comments so disturbing. If you believe that LGBT people are 'afflicted' despite logical arguments to the contrary then there's not much I can do for you. In my view, people have the right to express such views. Others may find them a ToS violation. If so, there's a mechanism the Lindens have put in place for abuse reporting. The problem is that putting this stuff out there and spreading such ill-informed views creates a negative, hostile environment for LGBT people and it makes assaults - verbal and physical - much more likely. And please don't play the "I'm only expressing a minority viewpoint, please stop attacking me" line. You've come out with a load of homophobic bullshit Jos and I'm calling you out on it.