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A very public post about a very private matter

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I am moved by the compassion of the many who have spoken with me regarding my abrupt departure. It is true, I have wrestled with the privacy issues for some time and where the lines are drawn in CDS. I swore to myself I wouldn't get involved in the politics, and then I did. My own weakness manifest.

However, in addition, I am also struggling deeply with a RL issue and the morning I resigned and left, it had all become too much and I just snapped. It is nothing personal and I cherish the friendships I have with each of you, whether I have talked with you privately about this matter or not.

I do miss the community. Maybe when I am in a better frame of mind, I'll make my way back. Until then, be good to each other, be good to your own selves. Love and peace. Bags.

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Bagheera wrote: Sun Oct 21, 2018 5:33 pm

I am moved by the compassion of the many who have spoken with me regarding my abrupt departure. It is true, I have wrestled with the privacy issues for some time and where the lines are drawn in CDS. I swore to myself I wouldn't get involved in the politics, and then I did. My own weakness manifest.

However, in addition, I am also struggling deeply with a RL issue and the morning I resigned and left, it had all become too much and I just snapped. It is nothing personal and I cherish the friendships I have with each of you, whether I have talked with you privately about this matter or not.

I do miss the community. Maybe when I am in a better frame of mind, I'll make my way back. Until then, be good to each other, be good to your own selves. Love and peace. Bags.

Life happens, and god knows that's an issue I can't exactly cast the first stone on either. I miss your being a part of the community and while I don't agree with you on some issues, I value your insight and more than once you've articulated a view that I hold better than I'm able to myself.

In or out of the CDS; my door's always open! 8)

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Han Held wrote: Sun Oct 21, 2018 8:47 pm

and while I don't agree with you on some issues

Actually, that's not even accurate. On the one issue I completely agree, but decided on a different course of action for myself. I understand and respect the way you feel about it. 8)

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You've been an articulate and valuable member of the CDS community for years, Bagheera. I know you would be - and will be - welcomed back by most of us here. When you are ready, of course.

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