Ranma, I always find it difficult to be able to address all of the points you make in a post. However, I feel I can respond to a couple of them in your last post.
Up to 2007, Representative Assembly meetings were primarily for RA members and basically only included commentary from citizens upon request of the RA. In early 2007, the 8th RA (when I was there as a DPU Representative) changed this. Now any citizen may ask to speak on any topic the RA is considering, and then when their turn comes is allowed to do so. At the end of every RA session there is also an "Open Discussion" time, when citizens may bring up any topic they like. Often there is a limit to how long this Open Discussion time can go, but if a topic is raised that others would like to continue talking about then it can be placed on the agenda for the next RA meeting.
In addition, I believe any citizen can request that the Leader of the Representative Assembly place a topic of discussion on the RA's agenda. It is, however, in the power of the LRA to decide where in the agenda this topic would be placed.
Also in addition, any citizen may contact any RA member to talk with them about an issue, and ask this RA member to bring it up in the next meeting. Among all the members of the RA, I would say it is very likely one of them would do it.
Yet in addition, any citizen may contact members of a faction and/or join a faction, and ask that faction Representatives bring a topic to an RA meeting.
Still yet in addition, we have this CDS Forum, which allows us to communicate with each other and hold discussions outside of any particular meeting time.
Although there are all of these options for bringing one's ideas to the RA, it can be a lot of work and even then they might not be acted on. When I was in the RA there was only one issue I felt really strongly about (allowing Government Referendums and beginning work toward allowance of Citizen Initiatives), and still by the end of the term not any faction outside of the DPU supported it in any way.
I am not able to speak for Rose, but I cannot believe she was saying she wanted you to not participate or express yourself freely. As for me, I was only suggesting that you and Symo try to adopt a more understanding approach in your responses to each other, in order create a more enjoyable discussion for both of you and for everybody who has been following what you are saying.