I understand what Delia is saying I agree, up to a point. We work better when we focus on issues and try to tackle those rather than attacking people. Where I differ is that I think it is legitimate to make ad hominem criticisms in some circumstances (the character of Ulrika, Ashcroft, ThePrincess Parisi and Michel Manen were relevant to criticism of their plans for the CDS for example).
Jamie, what I'm trying to get you to understand, is that *making war* on a section of our community was not a good idea. Sadly, this has been your project for a number of years now. You used the bully-pulpit of the Chancelry to condemn the CSDF and DPU factions. You used the merger as a battering ram, getting the new citizens riled about the evil factions and took factions out of the electoral process. But... despite all your many mean-spirited and personal attacks on us, we did not leave and continued to get elected to the Representative Assembly (which is why you now want to restrict election to the RA to those who pass your 'inworld attendance' test and are hinting at abolishing it altogether.)
Your split between debate and community is yet another false dichotomy. We can have both Political debate is a means to an end, not an end in itself. We need free and unrestricted speech in order to debate the issues and reach the right conclusions. We have a community. I think the distinction is between a closed society where certain topics are off limits, where the community maintains cohesion through repression, where, for example, people are 'discouraged' from free discussion on blogs and forums and told to 'keep it inworld'; and an open society where there are multiple sources of information, discussion and debate and freedom to say what you believe by the lights of your own conscience *even if that offends some people*. I think you favour a closed society, I think many other people in the CDS do. I favour the open society which the CDS was based on.
I'm at a loss to see how I can be 'gracious' except perhaps by keeping silent? If that's what you want, stop inviting me to comment!